作者在多年护理中也观察到一些常见的现象,值得有老人的家庭去了解。当然,绝大部分是和我们在中国文化里的观察是一致的,例如人死之前的回光返照——临终前突然恢复清醒与精力。一位长期昏迷的老人,在去世前一天清楚叫出每个孩子的名字,与他们告别。第二天清晨安静离世。这种现象令家属感到既欣慰又神秘。还有,一些老人走不了,是自己在选择死亡的时刻。有患者似乎在等待某个关键人物到来,或等到生日、纪念日,甚至等到某个家庭矛盾解决后才离开。最引人注目的是“来访者”现象。约72%的临终者提到看到已故亲人。书中一位名叫海伦的女士告诉侄女,二十年前去世的丈夫鲍勃来邀请她跳舞。她想穿漂亮裙子。侄女也没跟她争,而是为她准备好她要的衣服。最后,老人在平静与期待中离世。无论我们将其理解为心理机制、神经现象,或某种灵性体验,它至少说明:对当事人而言,死亡常常不是孤独的黑暗,而是某种迎接。这是死亡中的那隧道尽头的光亮,是值得反思的。
In 1982, armed with his Harvard MBA, Dimon hooked up with Sandy Weill, an old family friend, becoming his assistant at American Express. When Weill was forced out of his post as AmEx’s (AMX) president soon thereafter, Dimon followed him into exile, spending more than a year in a suite in Manhattan’s Seagram Building hatching plans to build a financial empire. During their long partnership, Weill was the strategist with the golden gut, Dimon the nuts-and-bolts operator who made the machine work. Citigroup was the culmination of their grand design. Yet Dimon grew increasingly frustrated at sharing power with other executives at Citi, and his natural combativeness got the best of him: He bickered with co-CEOs Weill and John Reed, among others, and in late 1998 found himself reliving the into-the-wilderness experience when Weill showed him the door.。关于这个话题,WPS办公软件提供了深入分析
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My best writing comes from my own curiosity. I want to answer a question for myself, even better if I don’t know the answer beforehand. Not knowing where I’m heading to.